The heart shredding betrayal when your husband sleeps with the nanny: A couple's devastating story - told by both sides

Many women joke about their husbands running off with a nanny, help or assistant but for some it becomes a heart-breaking reality.

So what does it feel like to be betrayed by the man you married with a woman living under your own roof? And what kind of man behaves in such a despicable way? Here, in a startling account, a scorned wife shares her despair, while her husband confesses to the claims/

Abigail Shepherd, 38, is a project co-ordinator and mother-of-two from Farnham, Surrey. She says:

For the first time in my married life, I stretched my arm out to feel an empty space next to me in bed. It made me shiver. First came a deep pang of sadness, followed by a sudden burst of anger.

Just days earlier, Ben had left me for another woman. And not just any woman, but our nanny of 15 months, who was 23.

And, worse still, I knew he was, at that moment, ensconced with her in her room just across the landing.

Yes, he'd moved a few feet from our room to hers. You might think the fact I allowed such a thing to happen was the most surprising thing of all. But we have two young children - Joseph, six, and Grace, four - and the last thing I wanted was to cause a scene.

Your husband leaving you for the nanny is the kind of cliche you think will never happen to you. Even though I'd long had doubts about our relationship, I never thought Ben was the type to stray or betray me.

When we first met 20 years ago - I was 18 and Ben 20 - it had been Ben who chased me. It was three months before I agreed to go on a date with him. It was our shared love of music and gigs that brought us together.

Within six months we were living together; a year later Ben proposed; and the year after that we were married and had bought our first home.

We went on to have children: our son in October 2008 and our daughter two years later. But I must admit there were nagging doubts: I never had an overwhelming attraction to him. Although I loved him, I was never in love with him. I craved affection - but not from him.

In August 2013, shortly after we had a holiday without the children in Prague, I advertised for a live-in au pair on the small ads website Gumtree. Ben and I were both working hard - me as a project co-ordinator, he as an IT manager - and, ironically, we thought a live-in nanny would help us spend more time together.

Anna, a New Zealander, applied with a lovely email in which she explained that she was 21, a trained dancer and eager for an opportunity to live in England.

We interviewed her over Skype and she arrived at our five-bedroom home a month later.

She wasn't the stereotypical blonde au pair who makes most wives nervous. She was slim and quite ordinary looking, with long red hair which she usually wore in plaits.

Most importantly, she was fabulous with our children. She taught my daughter ballet steps and would plait her hair before school.

She and Ben shared an interest in music and went to gigs together, which I didn't mind. If anything, it took the pressure off me - ever since having the children I had been far too tired to stay up all night dancing.

The first hint they were more than friends came last December when all five of us took a day trip to Belgium and, suddenly, I felt like the outsider.

I noticed a look from Ben to her as they sat in the front of the car that seemed loaded with affection. I was in the back, with one sleeping child each side of me. I sobbed silently.

My instincts were right. The very next morning Ben ended our marriage - by text message.

Back home, I'd awoken to find the house empty. Ben had taken the children out. I couldn't believe it when I read his message: 'I don't love you any more, I don't think you love me either. I think we should end our marriage.'

Stunned, I re-read it several times, thinking it was a mistake. Then I texted back: 'Is there someone else?'

His reply almost floored me. He said he was in love with Anna.

I was furious. Yes, I'd had my doubts about our marriage, but Ben was still my husband - we'd been together nearly 20 years. And I had thought of Anna as a friend. The sting of rejection felt physically painful.

I kept texting Ben, pleading with him not to do this, but he seemed resolute. I went to meet him and the children at the craft shop where they were buying Christmas decorations.

We shared a sad, knowing embrace in the car park - that might sound weird but it was a sort of acknowledgement of an ending and all that had gone before. Bear in mind, I was still in shock at that point.

Ironically, after years of recoiling when Ben offered me affection, suddenly I needed to feel his arms around me. But we didn't get the chance to talk until the children were in bed that night.

I was in denial and shock - and mindful of not causing a scene when the children were in the house. So when Ben suggested I stay with my parents nearby for a few days, I agreed. My parents had known for a while I'd been unhappy.

As I packed my bag, Anna came home - she'd made herself scarce during the day - and I followed her to her room. Again, I couldn't shout because of the kids, but she sat quietly on her bed wearing a look of shame as I hissed questions at her. How long had it been going on? Had they kissed or had sex?

I pushed them each for answers but they were adamant they hadn't shared their first kiss until two days before when I'd gone to bed early. And I believe them: why lie when there was nothing left to lose?

Two days later, I moved back into our house. Why should I be the one to be separated from my children?

By this point, I'd realised that part of me was relieved our marriage had ended. I was feeling stronger, more stoical. I told Ben I'd be keeping our bedroom and suggested he sleep on a camp bed in his office in the house.

Instead, he brazenly moved into Anna's room the same evening and confessed they'd slept together in her bed when I'd left on the Sunday.

I was disgusted. Still, somehow, I managed to remain calm.

We didn't explain to the children what was happening for another four weeks - until Ben and I had worked out that I would move out and he'd stay in our family home.

As for them noticing the unusual sleeping arrangements, Ben would get up before the children each morning and go into the bathroom so that they didn't see him leaving Anna's room.

We did that for four months before I found a new flat five minutes away. I didn't want to stay in the house with all the memories there.

The children are too young to make much of it all and seemed content that they would have a new bedroom they could help me decorate, and that we were going to buy them a kitten to keep at my place.

Why didn't I sack Anna and throw her out? Perhaps I've been extraordinarily charitable towards the pair of them, but the simple fact is that I like her and she's been part of my children's lives for two years.

I know they adore her and she them. If she disappeared it would mean more upheaval for them.

And In many ways it's easier that Ben fell for our nanny rather than, say, a work colleague I'd never met. At least I know Anna is terrific with my children.

Don't get me wrong, there have been moments I've felt like cutting up Ben's clothes, and others where I've cried sentimentally over pieces of jewellery he bought me during our marriage.

Many nights I've fallen into bed feeling lonely and resentful that they'll be snuggled up on the sofa he and I chose together. Not because I want him - I don't - but because I want someone special, too.

I have been on a few dates and I would absolutely love to find a special relationship of my own. At 38, I won't settle this time: I want butterflies and burning desire, all the things I never felt with Ben. The way I see it, Anna wasn't the reason we broke up: she was merely the catalyst.

Perhaps this, coupled with a desire to make this as seamless for the children as possible, is why we've all managed to remain so civil.

Despite it all, I wish them well.

Husband Ben says:

I know people will assume that, at 40, I've had some sort of mid-life crisis. But my feelings for Anna are anything but frivolous. And I didn't do this lightly. Our marriage was breaking down, and falling in love with Anna just speeded things up.

I don't feel guilty because I didn't go out looking for love. And it certainly hasn't been easy. I've worried about absolutely everything and the impact it will have - not just on the children, but also Abi and Anna. The person I was least worried about was me.

People may well wonder why I'm putting my head above the parapet like this, but, if I'm honest, it's cathartic.

Everyone tells Abi and me that they are amazed at how calmly we are dealing with the situation.

Abi has been extraordinarily generous in her understanding and I know she could have reacted so differently.

It's true I was the one who chased Abi. She was singing in a local band the night we met. I thought she was gorgeous.

Looking back, I think there was always an imbalance in our affections. In our 20s, it wasn't as noticeable: you don't think about those things when you're having fun. But these sorts of cracks are amplified as you get older and have children.

It was very obvious in the past few years, since we had our daughter, that Abi's heart wasn't in it when we had sex. It was more frustrating than hurtful. We bumbled along fine as friends but we didn't connect any more as a couple.

I was fairly logical about the whole situation and even wrote a pros and cons spreadsheet last August when I was first considering suggesting we went our separate ways.

As for Anna, I liked her from the moment we met, but I didn't find her attractive. In fact, I thought she was geeky. But we'd often stay up late listening to old vinyl records. In hindsight, I enjoyed having the company and sharing my enthusiasms with someone again.

As Abi and I started bickering constantly - over our finances and her unwillingness to help with the domestic chores - I felt the need to confide in someone.

Like most people in that situation, I turned to the person I saw most often. The fact I work from home meant that was Anna.

It didn't feel disloyal because Anna had been privy to the atmosphere between us. She remained entirely neutral: I just wanted to offload. By May 2014, I was seriously doubting my marriage. The arguments were non-stop and I was worrying about the effect on the children.

Last October, Anna told me she was thinking of moving out to give Abi and me space to resolve our differences. I was overcome by an unexpected feeling of sadness. I knew it wasn't normal to feel like that about my children's nanny.

Thoughts of Anna began to consume me: how happy and at ease I felt in her company, how much fun we had together and, yes, how wonderful she was with the children.

Did I want to be with her or was this just a reaction to feeling unhappy with Abi? I wasn't sure. I felt stuck, and didn't want to hurt anyone.

As my feelings for Anna intensified, I came up with what I thought was a plan to resolve the situation: I'd tell her I was falling in love with her, she would laugh at me, or possibly slap my face and tell me I was a sad, middle-aged man - and that would be an end to it.

I would have to lick my wounds and move on. I felt that would be the preferable outcome, because anything else would complicate matters hugely.

But it backfired monumentally. Home alone with Anna last November, I went to her room and told her how I felt. I don't remember my exact words, but she became tearful and said she had feelings for me, too.

Far from feeling elated, it put me in a blind panic because I knew this meant we were now in an impossible situation.

We'd had no physical contact and spent the next few weeks talking about our feelings, how confused we were. Was this just an infatuation? Neither of us wanted to hurt Abi or the children.

Last December, the night before all five of us went on a holiday to Bruges, we shared our first kiss. The feelings were so powerful that I knew I wanted something to happen between us - but not behind Abi's back.

I had discussed with Anna what I was going to do. Delaying the inevitable any longer would have made matters much worse.

I know it was cowardly to end my marriage by text. I panicked and handled it badly.

Abi was incredibly upset, and for the first time I could understand why sometimes people go and throw themselves under trains.

It would have been easier not to have to deal with any of it. There was no way to end the marriage and start a relationship with Anna and avoid anyone being hurt.

I worried about explaining the situation to the children, too.

I can't deny that it was weird at times sleeping in bed with Anna under the same roof as Abi. But I didn't feel guilty. The children did notice - one of them ran into Anna's room one morning to get me up to fix a toy - but they seemed unperturbed by the scenario.

In a way, the children would have thought it worse if I'd been sleeping on the floor in the office. And if either Abi, Anna or I had moved out at that point, it would have made things more difficult.

As for Anna, I know she was worried that people would see her as a scarlet woman who'd moved in and wrecked a marriage. One of my friends reacted badly to the situation when we told people what was going on.

But she's not to blame - and nor is anyone else.

Culled from Daily Mail 

Cheating rumous BTW Beyonce and Bodyguard Julius? As a Result of their Closeness

According to recent reports, Jay Z is jealous of Beyonce's close relationship with her bodyguard Julius(a divorcee with a kid) ,and thinks she's having an affair with him.He is the same bodyguard who tried to protect Jay Z in the elevator attack.He is so close to her that, his hands are on her most of the time.

It is understandable why Jay Z would feel uncomfortable.The guys knows too much ,has been there through it all (since 2009),and is the only one who knows the truth about that elevator fight..He protected Beyonce to the extent that, after the elevator fight, Jay Z wanted to enter her car with Solange but he directed Jay Z to enter another car...

 According to Star Magazine

“Jay definitely thinks that there was and may still be something romantic going on between Bey and Julius.He wanted to fire Julius last February, but Beyonce said, ‘Julius isn’t going anywhere.’Despite being subject to numerous cheating rumors himself, Jay is, nonetheless, “very jealous” of his wife’s friendship with Julius — and friends believe he may have a reason to be.They’ve spent a lot of time together behind closed doors,”He’s even stayed in her hotel room.”

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Jim Iyke slammed by Journalist he allegedly accused of causing his breakup with Nadia Buari

This is how the cookie crumbles - Emma Agu ,a New York based musician and  owner of  nigerianfm.com  is slamming Jim Iyke for accusing him of breaking his relationship with Nadia Buari. According to him,Jim Iyke went to see his ex,Keturah behind Nadia's back and when she found out,she called off their relationship.Jim Iyke then called him,threatening him for telling Nadia where he was ..He leaked their exchanged mails... get your pop-corn ready for a high magnitude of long and interesting drama, my upset is that Nadia comes across like a sweetheart who doesn't need a two timer. Anyways I don't know their lives , just Read it below ..

"The most sickest creep and a criminal  that walk the face of the earth (Jim Iyke) called me some minutes ago and called me all kinds of names.  He is accusing me of destroying his relationship with Nadia Bauri.
This overrated son of a bitch with his amateurish acting skills thinks his name can bring any good to a writer or a blogger. The man with a tainted name, a rogue  who has burnt every bridge he stepped on is trying to hold me responsible for what ever misfortune that has fallen him in the last 72 hours.

So this montebank sneaked into New York around 5am 3 days ago and did everything to keep it a top secret  until the bubble bust right in front of him. When I got the hint that James was in Keturah's house, I thought Keturah was lying . The girl said James came claiming that  his  relationship with Nadia Bauri was over. She also said james (Jim) came  to pick  her up for  Nigeria. I told her this guy might be lying.

As a brother and one this crook calls  'a confidante,' I sent him an email  which he never replied. He wanted to make sure Keturah never told me about his arrival to the extent he threw me under the bus. He lied against me and told Keturah stuff that got both of us into a heated argument. So I smelt a rat and decided  to find out from Ghana who is telling the truth.

When I got in touch with Nadia's manager, he maintained that Nadia was aware Jim went to Miami and insisted that he (Jim) was no way near Keturah's house.
Nadia's manager subsequently called him, he lied that he was in Miami. I was on the phone with Keturah Hamilton when Nana( Nadia's manager) sent me a text message saying Jim was in Miami.

I never believed Keturah that Jim was  in her house until she showed me a proof. It became very apparent that Jim iyke lied to both  Keturah Hamilton and Nadia Bauri. Nadia Bauri decided to pull the plug off their ever restless relationship.

Some hours ago, Jim called to insult me. Saying maybe I want to be famous. This writer started enjoying limelight, stardom and fame while Jim was maybe in Secondary School. He said I was the only man on earth he respected till today.
I have him on tape and will play it to my world audience by 8AM New York time, which should be 1PM Nigerian Time. I need everyone out there to  listen and  find out why Jim Iyke should be taken off the streets. The guy can never change. That deliverance by TB Joshua never worked. It was a fluke.
This guy is bipolar , a psycho who needs to see a doctor. I will get him arrested for making threats to my life.  There's a huge difference between living in America and Nigeria. I will teach him how to live in America.
For  everyone's information, Jim Iyke is babysitting Keturah Hamilton's dog while she is in LA with her lover.
I have been expecting Keturah to give me the number with which Jim called since he blocked his number when he called.  I will track him down right away.

This guy is a monumental disappointment, fraudster, liar and a cheat. Why is he so mad? The reason is simple. He is looking for a scapegoat. Jim should hold himself responsible for whatever happened to his relationship with Nadia Buari. On the other hand, Keturah Hamilton is no more available. The girl has moved on.

Emma Agu

See leaked emails

On May 18, 2014, at 1:49 AM, Iktune <iktune@aol.com> wrote:
Jim Iyke reply

OGA EMMA 

FROM

JIM IYKE JIMIYKEUNTAMED@.COMHIDE DETAILS
TO
IKTUNE IKTUNE@AOL.COM

I'm lost Emma sending your article was supposed to make me scared? So much emotion! So much passion, so much bitterness.

Lol, I must have wounded your self professed ego deeply. You sound like a  rejected child- man. Lol. Any body with his head firmly screwed on their shoulders can deduce this for what it us; the desperate act of a deeply troubled insecure man still suffering the throes of middle age crisis.
Keep entertaining truly intelligent people. We will wait your world news at 8.

Looool

I'm too focused on what I'm doing to dignify this. I thought there would be something new. I would have wished Karma on you but its already working overtime  in your life.
I expected this tantrums from your son but then again role reversals occur from  time to time.

I sympathize with him wherever he is.
Good luck sir.

Sent from my iPad

JIMIYKEUNTAMED <JIMIYKEUNTAMED@.COM>
SENT: SUN, MAY 18, 2014 1:18 AM
SUBJECT: RE: SO, YOU ARE A AN ANIMAL HUH?

Sent: Sat, May 17, 2014 11:53 pm
Subject: Re: so, you are a an animal huh?

I've been threatened by many men Emma. Run?! Anyone can see vendetta from a mile away. You make me laugh. You call yourself an ibo man? You're a coward Emma. You've lost all the respect I had for you.

What's the worse case scenario? You recorded me questioning your sanity? Who's the animal now? Who's the immature person. A man that purports himself a leader yet acts like a retarded child

There's nothing you can say or put out that hasn't been done before. You re mad I refused to grant you interviews or suck up to your many gimmicks to kiss ass.

I can read selfish men from miles away. You've told me many things about Keturah, Nadia and countless people in my life unsolicited. You're sly and two faced and I didn't buy into your story of brotherhood long before now.

God made and put me here not man.

Try all you can you will end up where the other desperate creatures did; beneath me.

Good luck sir

Sent from my iPad
FROM: IKTUNE <IKTUNE@AOL.COM>
TO: JIMIYKEUNTAMED <JIMIYKEUNTAMED@.COM>
SENT: SUN, MAY 18, 2014 1:18 AM
SUBJECT: RE: SO, YOU ARE A AN ANIMAL HUH?

I guess you dont know me, If only you knew my own madness has reached the market square, you wont dare thread the path that will lead to your destruction. When I started enjoying the limelight, you were not even near a Secondary School. First cut is the deepest, you threw me under the bus and lied over and over to me who has taken all manner of insults on your behalf. You must be a bastard. If you are man enough, call me with a known number and see if I wont track you down right away

Jim iyke writes.
JIM IYKE
3:09 PM (1 HOUR AGO)

TO ME

Lol. I know you're the US president. I see you require several broadcasts and platform to expose me. You re in denial Emma. You can finally stop begging and scavenging for interviews to keep your pathetic outfit afloat. I've finally given you relevance.  I've always tailored my words around you. You keep referring to Keturah. Which one? The one you tried to burn severally on phone conversations? You're a pathological liar and that's what sent you on exile in the first place from Nigeria.

CNN?! Lool. My brother, you really have arrived at the proverbial bend!

I'm too busy Emma. Lets see now one week. Two weeks. Maybe a month at worst ill forget you even exist.

Ill relegate you to the trash can I reserve for haters. Atleast the others made their position clear from get go.

You're blistering and gloating now. You've finally convinced your warped psyche this is the best news ever. False or truth I've got to jump on it. Who knows you exist in the continent? t.

The rest? Well, the rest doesn't exist. People I don't know nor bear no economic and emotional value in my life has never had the capability to make me loose a second of sleep.
I'm gonna do myself a favour and direct all the mails that emanate from you to trash where the owner firmly belongs. Its Sunday. I've a busy week ahead. Besides FBI, IRS, navy seals and commandos all await me.
You really are shameless Emma.
Sent from my iPad


Emma Agu writes

NRI NY <IKTUNE@AOL.COM.COM>
5:02 PM (0 MINUTES AGO)


TO JIM

You made who relevant? I have done interviews with Omotola, Awilo, Ministers, senators, men and women with proven records. You local boy is telling me you are making me relevant?  Last week alone, I interviewed, Ibrahim Commassie, RTD Inspector General of Police , I also did interview with Prof Femi Mimiko, Vice Chancellor, AAU and also a member of the National Confab. Same goes with Dr. Rabi Ibrahim, Bilksu Majoro, lawyer and a well known activist, Aminu Mahmuid, General Mansur Dan Ali, to name but a few. Tomorrow, I will be interviewing Jerry Gana and Mr. Falana.  These are men and women with proven records dear James. Over half a million Nigerians living overseas tune in to listen to great interviews with great people. Your interview with me brought me no audience, no rating, no feedback. It  was zero. Your name makes my listeners to turn off their appliances. Who wants to listen to a thief and a criminal, I was trying aimlessly to rebrand his image?

For the records, Keturah Hamilton begged me to accept you.  Keturah Hamilton would tell you, I never liked you from the start. I heard you are a thief and she told me not to judge you based on what people  say. I don't need anyone to convince me now that you Jim Iyke, is a thief, a rouge and a criminal. You live off the sweat and hardwork of women. You have wrecked so many lives. Cursed from every angle of this world, you have been on the run since you duped a married woman you slept with who took your late mum to India and London. You came from a family of ingrates therefore, you have no  mind, no heart no feeling for anyone regardless. It was no surprise how the women you swindled gave an interview shortly after your mum's demise, saying she never raised you well.

Your name is tainted, news about you drives away people. Ask Keturah, how people hate and loathe you.  You are a bad news.  She will tell you how many times, she had wrangling with folks who were tired of hearing or reading your name. A particular man wrote openly on my fan page , saying-Jim Iyke is bad news-Jim Iyke has squandered his opportunity.

I know folks out here who wouldn't watch any movie you appear in for a million dollars. The only people telling you about me are rogues like you who have the same evil mindset like you.  Those folks who are equally untalented like you, would resort by any means to use others. A couple of them here, even your friend based in Dallas swindled me once. Birds of the same feather.
Did you not tell me you were relocating to the US to live forever with Keturah Hamilton. Did you not say in my interview with you she was the best thing that happened to your life? The tape is still there maggot!   You left her as soon as you finish making all your fake promises. What about the money she gave you when you opened a so called store in ABUJA. WHAt about the money she gave you when you lied to her you wanted to buy a house?  You left her after looting her.

After wrecking havoc to this woman's life, leaving her for Nadia, you were not even contented with Nadia Buari that no days passes without you calling Keturah and complained against Nadia Bauri. You had a game plan that backfired, now you want to hold me responsible for your apparent downfall that started from the day you were born.

See all your mates in Nigeria and look at your life. Dude, you will run from pillar to post until your dying day. Ask T B Joshua the man who cast a spell on you about me. You were in Gabon when I started making waves at the age of 12. I have performed before 3 heads of States and also headlines President Barak Obama's inaugural ball she he was elected.  I wanted to grant you a pass till your bury your dead, now, with your latest hit on me, I will spare no rods , no words to tell the world who you truly are. I am not responsible for your break up with Nadia Bauri. You were caught in the web of lies. Deal with it.

I will not waste my time to write you again. I am a very busy man. I don't even have time to crosscheck all the stuff I have been sending to you.  I will issue a press release shortly. Deal with it loser. Keturah Hamilton does not want you. Nadia Bauri has left you. Deal with it!

From: Jim Iyke
<JIMIYKEUNTAMED@.COM>
TO: IKTUNE <IKTUNE@AOL.COM>
SENT: SAT, MAY 17, 2014 11:53 PM
SUBJECT: RE: SO, YOU ARE A AN ANIMAL HUH?


Are you still going on about this? Is that all? In a few days I won't even remember your last name. That's how much I've trained myself to shuffle trash firmly where it belongs; in the dark recess if my mental archives!! Lol

Why are you still trying to justify yourself? Why would I hide from a mutt? You ll be so crushed when you discover what I came to the states for. This is nothing! I'm overjoyed you finally dealt your real hand. Only a retard will make you a mentor. If you were contented with your life and family why are you all up in other people's lives to create relevance for your far from desirous one. What you have is not even a proper platform. You had to solicit help everywhere ? Lol how pathetic !
Its unfortunate you re not worth the trouble. I've had reason to travel to many cities of he world for the project I'm currently working on.

I didn't realize there was an embargo as regards where I can go or can't go to do bizness in the states. Why are you trying to develop heart attack on my account. Who made you judge and jury? Have you considered there's a chance even if its remotely considerable that you might be wrong? No, your hate runs too deep. Your self righteous insufferable personae has been deeply hurt. Your overestimated self importance has been questioned.

All you do is sit down and mudsling others;Yorubas, Hausas, your fellow ibos, people that genuinely look to you for advice and guidance.

When you reached to me. I came out cause I believed at first. But something about you didn't ring right. I've honed my instincts very well Emma. Time just confirmed it!

What else do you think you owe younger ibo men. Money? A platform for image laundry and fame. You owe us your word! It means everything. In your throes of introspection a part of you will tell you I've done you no wrong. I'm a bereaved man trying to do my business quietly and bury the most important woman in my life. If you had any iota of emotion in you, you will honour that. I've wasted a great deal of energy in he past being caught up in his circle of hate you all create. I'm beyond that now.
I was never rude. Always attentive and respectful. Even thanked God a few times for the man I thought you were. When you're done with your attempt to wreck me what's next? I hope you will find some satisfaction. I hope you find justification. I hope for you're sake you won't be staring at another empty space where you will wish you had handled matters differently.

How well do you live your life that you so perversely without cause decide who is living less desirous lives in your eyes? Are you trying to play God? You holds you accountable? It was so easy to reach me and insult me by e mil yet you claim you couldn't reach me upon my arrival in the states. You posted an article long before you sought out the truth. A one sided version you hurriedly put out to fulfill your desire for vendetta.

You claim you have kids. Life is a bitch! They will run into their road blocks. People will return the favour you've done others a thousand fold.
I refuse to be caught in your web. My justification is in time. Yours is in all the double agents and ass kissers cheering you. When your eminent rock bottom happens I pray the cheering continues.
If I am to be obliterated as you all perpetuate, hasn't it occurred to all of you why it hasn't and won't happen. I don't know how I got here. Ill never know. Neither will all of you. Emma my name is IKECHUKWU.

Its God's engineering not man. Therefore no man can destroy God's creation. I don't hate you and I never will. Nobody is worth it.   I'm still here. I'm still prosperous. I'm still breathing. I'm still potty in God's hand. I've no business fighting a battle that isn't mine.

Tchidi Chikere replies 'haters', says he's happy to be married again

Tchidi Chikere married actress Nuella Njubigbo on Saturday in Anambra State after series of drama surrounding their union/relationship. He was previously married to actress Sophia Tchidi Chikere who finally opened up to curse him out ... Read her venting below ..

 Sophia Tchidi Chikere has reacted to the statement released yesterday by actress Nuella Njubigbo who claimed she only started dating the movie director after his marriage to Sophia packed up. Sophia says this is absolutely not true.

  Sophia said she didn't know about the impending wedding until she read it online last week . She also said she initially found the news hard to believe because she and Tchidi are not formally divorced yet.

Reacting to Nuella's comments that the affair with Tchidi only started after his marriage ended, Sophia says it's a blatant lie, that Nuella started dating Chidi long before their marriage ended, and actually blamed Nuella for the demise of her marriage that produced three boys.

This is actually the first time Sophia will comment on this issue since her separation from Tchidi in 2012.
 "I swear with my life, my children's life and everything I have that Nuella started dating my husband before he left the marriage. But because I respect my husband a lot, the father of my three boys, I have kept calm and won't talk and comment because there is no need to wash your dirty linen in public. Tchidi is a wonderful husband and father and will always be.

But if Nuella opened her mouth and said that she wasn't dating my husband before he left the marriage, if she's lying let her not see anything good in life and if I'm lying let me not see anything good in life.

This question is for Nuella. Nuella since you broke my marriage, have I called you? Have I looked for you? No! After what you did, you still have the right to lie and say you were not in the picture? You want to deceive the public? But you can't deceive God. You put what God has joined together asunder and made my children cry to bed every night.

I keep calm and you have the audacity to say that you weren't dating my husband when we were together? Let the wrath of God be your portion. Now that you have taken my hubby and you are getting married to him like I heard, are you happy? Are you fulfilled? Let the Almighty God fight for me and judge you.

Let vengeance be of God who knows everything and sees everything. My God is able and he's not asleep. He sees. He knows. And he feels what I feel. He is the Lord who cares for me and my kids.

As for my husband, he is a wonderful father and I will never ever disrespect him"

Video: Lamar Odom's mistress, Jennifer Richardson, Reveals every

In a taped interview with Star Magazine, Lamar Odom's former mistress, Jennifer Richardson tells it all. They met in January 2012 in Washington DC and dated for over a year.

Jennifer Richardson tells Star:

"Lamar and I were not just a one night stand. This isn’t something that just happened, we met, it happened and and then it was over. No. This is months of time. It was our life…our life. First class plane tickets to every city that he was in. Going out my own drivers. All my own reservations made, car service from the airports. I was in all the same places they were. I was the on the road girlfriend. It was a relationship."

She also said she gave Lamar a threesome as a Christmas gift last year...choi! And then she puts Lamar's wife, Khloe Kardashian on blast; saying Khloe is in denial, and should get a divorce for her own peace of mind because Lamar will never change. Find the autoplay video after the cut...

Lamar Odom’s Secret Girlfriend Talks to STAR

Lamar Odom goes "Hulk Smash" on paparazzi amid cheating rumours

Lamar Odom turned on paparazzi yesterday in Los Angeles amid reports he cheated on his wife Khloe Kardashian with a woman named Jennifer Richardson. (Read the Origin of the gist HERE)

In the video posted online, Lamar is seen throwing items out a paparazzo's car and smashing his camera equipment on the ground.

Lamar's outburst comes just as his alleged mistress is threatening to publish proof of their affair.

According to Star magazine...

Following the bombshell report on Lamar Odom‘s secret affair, now comes more news that could break Khloe Kardashian‘s heart: According to Star magazine, his alleged mistress Jennifer Richardson has a treasure trove of mementos proving she and Lamar had a relationship for several months.

Jennifer collected plane tickets, invoices and game tickets that a pal claims are from her time on the road with Lamar, which lasted from December 12, 2012 until February 12, 2013. As Lamar played for the L.A. Clippers, proud Jennifer was allegedly in the stands watching.

“He flew her first class every time,” her friend told Star.

And he also allegedly put her up in five-star hotels, using his friend, Anthony McNair, as a cover. Among the items pictured in Star is a check-in envelope with Anthony’s name on it.

Together, the items are evidence that Jennifer was much more than just a booty call, her friend insists.

“Between games, she would just go home and repack for her next trip with Lamar,” the friend explains. “She didn’t do this for fame. She did this because they had a connection. They shared all their secrets with each other. Lamar fell for her, and she fell for him

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Actor Denzel Washington in Cheaters Web against wife of 30yrs

Well, that's if you believe Radar Online. Below is how they are reporting it...

Flight star Denzel Washington has been married for 30 years, but despite a seemingly idillic relationship with his wife, he is now caught up in a cheating scandal as photographs of Denzel apparently with and kissing another woman are being shopped, RadarOnline.com has learned exclusively.

Denzel, 58, and his wife Pauletta, 62, recently did an interview with Ebony magazine giving what what called a “rare portrait” into “one of Hollywood’s longest running couples.”

But several photos that have been shopped to various media outlets appear to show Denzel with another woman and kissing her on the lips, in what appears to be a passionate moment.

Those photos are a stark contrast to what his wife Pauletta recently told Ebony.

“I live with this man. I see the down part. I see the sad part. I see every part,” Pauletta told the magazine.

“He has and knows he has stability in me as his wife. That’s what gives him strength, regardless if he misuses it. I can’t dwell on that. But I do know that gives him a great platform to go and fly.”

Four photographs, seen by Radar and shopped to other media outlets, show him sitting on a couch with a young lady, and then throughout the series of pictures he grabs her arm and pulls her in for a kiss on the lips in one. The woman is not identified and Radar was not able to verify the authenticity of the photographs.

  Pauletta has made it clear she's never going to leave Denzel ...

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Khloe Kardashian sends Lamar Odom packing for cheating!

According to a report by Star magazine, Khloe Kardashian has kicked Lamar Odom out of their home, after finding out about his year-long affair with another woman.

Lamar has reportedly been cheating on Khloe since at least January 2012, Star reveals in an exclusive report. They claim Lamar met gorgeous 29-year-old brunette Jennifer Richardson at the Stadium Club strip club in Washington, D.C., after playing a basketball game.

“Lamar and Jennifer ate dinner in an intimate booth together that night, then he took off her shoes and started rubbing her feet,” a friend of Jennifer’s tells the mag. “The chemistry between them was off the charts!”

Lamar soon left, but the night didn’t end there. Lamar allegedly called Jennifer at 3 am and invited her back to his hotel room. Continue...



“As soon as she got there, he took her phone apart and put the pieces in different spots all around the room,” her friend reveals. “He actually took the battery out and the back off. She thought he was afraid that she would take photos or record him.”

With that out of the way, Lamar started “grabbing her butt and kissing her sweetly on the neck,” the friend says. “She said he was an amazing kisser.”
Although the two did not have intercourse, “they did everything else,” says the source,. “It was incredibly intimate.”


And it wasn’t just physical. “They talked all through the night and he really opened up to her,” the source reveals. For Jennifer, it was “very emotional and much more than a random thing. She was instantly smitten with Lamar.”

It seems the feeing was mutual. Lamar gifted Jennifer with $3,000 before saying goodbye - and promising to see her again soon, according to the mag.

With Lamar’s busy work schedule - and a change of teams to the Los Angeles Clippers — it was 11 months before they would reconnect, almost by fate.

When the Clippers were in North Carolina for a game, Lamar ran into Jennifer in the lobby of the Charlotte Ritz-Carlton.


“As soon as Lamar saw her, he ran up to her and gave her a big hug,” the friend says. “He said, ‘I’ve been looking for you. Are we good?’”

Apparently the answer was yes, because the two had sex that night, the report claims. Says the friend, “Lamar couldn’t get enough. He was insatiable!’

That night was the beginning of an intense affair that would last several months, the mag says. Lamar invited Jennifer to travel with him to Milwaukee and Detroit for his next games, and also to a Dec. 23 game in Arizona, where the couple had a time to remember.

“Lamar had told Jennifer that he really wanted to have a threesome,” the source claims. “She wanted to make him happy, so she asked a pretty friend to join them in bed. Lamar stayed an extra night in Phoenix, and the three of them hooked up on the morning of Christmas Eve!”

Just a few hours later, he played happy husband with Khloe at the Kardashian family’s Christmas Eve party. But even there, Jennifer was not far from his mind. Says the source, “At the party, Lamar snuck off to a private room, called Jennifer and had phone sex with her!”

In January, all of the drama grew to be too much, sources told Star, and Khloe kicked Lamar out of the house.

Almost immediately, he flew Jennifer into town and stayed with her for a week and a half at the Luxe Hotel in L.A. Jennifer “said Lamar seemed so sad and detached then …” according to the friend. “It seemed obvious to her he was unhappy with his wife.”

But it wasn’t just Khloe who was bothering Lamar: He also told Jennifer that he had issues with her family. “Whenever he would leave to go to Khloe, he would say ‘I have to go be a Kardashian now.’”

Despite their problems, Khloe soon took Lamar back, but his affair was far from over, and Jennifer accompanied him frequently on the road.

“They would meet up at a nightclub and go back to the room a few minutes apart, using separate keys,” the source says. “She would also use a separate driver. But everyone knew they were together.” Lamar even went so far, the friend claims, as to kiss her in front of his friends.”

As Lamar headed into the playoffs and filming for the next season of Keeping Up With the Kardashians, however, the couple drifted apart.

But when the Clippers were eliminated from the playoffs on May 3, he reportedly went running back to Jennifer. “She was angry, since he’d been missing for a couple months,” her friend explains. ” … It was over.”

The same could be said for Khloe and Lamar’s marriage, the magazine claims. Sources told Star that Lamar moved out of Khloe’s home around June 8, and still isn’t back.

Khloe’s rep denies the affair ever happened, however, and Lamar’s rep did not respond to Star‘s attempts to contact him.

A source tells Star, “Khloe is freaking out, begging him to come back.” But it may be too late.

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Cheating Ronaldo romps with Brazilian beauty Miss BumBum

Could you think this is the reason why Cristiano Ronaldo didn't "perform" well during Real Madrid vs Borussia Dortmund match on Wednesday April 24th (Real lost 4-1 to Dortmund)...lol . lets find out...

Andressa Urach (pictured above right) is claiming the star footballer, who is in a serious relationship with Russian super model, Irina Shayk, slept with her in a £12,500-a-night Villa Magna hotel on Monday April 22nd. Andressa is 2013 Miss Bum Bum Brazil queen. She told The S

Andressa Urach, 27, (pictured above right) said the 80 million ponds Real Madrid ace, bedded her after a string of racy texts.
She's saying Ronaldo claimed he had DREAMT about her rear and called her “little horse”, adding: “He was obsessed with my butt.”

And she described how the pair ended up romping in a posh hotel last week, just 48 hours before winker Ronaldo’s Real were thrashed 4-1 by German side Borussia Dortmund in their Champions League semi-final first leg.
Andressa said: “It was incredible, his body’s perfect, like a Greek god. He went on for hours and would not stop talking about my butt.”
The tryst came a day after £80million Portugal international Ronaldo was snapped leaving a Madrid diner beside a furious-looking Irina(pictured above left), his girlfriend since 2010.
The star, 28 — a footballing role model who is also an ambassador for Save the Children — contacted Andressa out of the blue after being passed her number by a mutual friend last month.
Saucy snaps had just emerged of her  since she just finished 1st in the Brazilian competition known as Miss BumBum.
Ronaldo began sending Andressa texts and later spoke to her via internet service Skype.
Andressa said: “I have always thought Cristiano is one of the most gorgeous men in the world, so I couldn’t believe it when he got in touch with me."

ON OTHER NEWS .. Cristiano's girlfriend, Irina, is known as one of the world's top swimwear and lingerie models. Meaning her body is bad ass!!! Is he saying Bum PASS Bum LMAO

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Photo Evidence -Tiwa Savage's Fiance TeeBillz baby mama & Kids

  Omo when I saw this online I became dumb founded..I hope these rumors ain't true. Anyways according to the gist making rounds on the internet, TeeBillz was dating the said lady in the picture above(R), he got her pregnant and she had a baby, but he wasn't ready to settle down. Three years later he still didn't commit to her and got her pregnant again!

He meets another lady (Talented song writer , music artist & Diva Tiwa Savage) who is a diamond in the dirt  and he wastes no time in putting a ring on her finger.

Hnmmm can't be the Judge of this story as it's still sketchy....But basically, I think ladies should be more careful in having babies for a man who is dabbling in between uncertainty and certainty... because at the end of the day ...where unceertainty wins. It leaves the lady with a loads of responsibilities....my amebo antena is all out on this one sha..
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Ruke Amata's wife's multiple affairs exposed - Encomium exclusive

What you are about to read will shock you, disgust you and open your eyes to a lot of things going on in this country. Story written by Stella Dimoko Korkus for Encomium magazine. Unbelievable! Read it below...

The story that has unfolded in the home of actor, Ruke Amata and the famous Amata clan is the type found in the kind of movies you watch in Nollywood, unbelievable and shocking. Are you married and into runs and have information on your phone that might nail you? Please check your phone and delete before you read further as this could be you!

Pretty Gilda Amata has a can of worms that has been opened, given away by her blackberry phone. According to insiders, ‘Someone got hold of Gilda’s phone and downloaded the content of her black berry chat and the shocking contents were love/sex chats between her and a top politician whose wife she calls ‘Aunty’, a serving Governor and several others. Gilda met the serving Governor through actress, Omoni Oboli and the rest is history’.

In the chats, Gilda confessed to a lot of shocking things including running down her husband of eight years. There is also a portion on the chat where she chatted with the Governor. The Governor who runs a South South state is a hopeless lover boy who reffered to Gilda as MMP (missing my princess). Gilda is also said to have a 17year-old son she didn’t declare when she met and married Ruke and he has just found out. The person who downloaded Gilda’s messages sent the chats copying Ruke Amata, two governors, actress Omoni Oboli, a politician and some others involved. The e-mail has been circulated and there is fire on the mountain. Gilda who shuttles Nigeria and the United Kingdom is currently in Nigeria as you read this. May His will be done! We tried for about 48 hours before going to press to get Gilda’s side of the story, but her phone was switched off.

Ruke Amata ‘I received the email’

We called Ruke Amata’s London number on Sunday, November 4, 2012 and the conversation went thus, ‘Hello Ruke, this is Stella. Long time, no talk. We received an email copying you and some other people concerning your wife. Do you have anything to say?. His response was ‘I received the email but I have no comment please…’. Only God can intervene in this matter. May His will be done.

Omoni Oboli ‘My hands are clean’

We contacted Omoni Oboli who was on a retreat in Israel on Monday, November 5, 2012 and the actress confirmed getting an email where she was copied alongside some prominent names but denied dating a jeweller (names withheld) or having a relationship with the Governor. In her own words, ‘He is just my friend and I have nothing at all with him, I swear. I am not dating the Governor. I don’t know why this is happening’ The line cut and we couldn’t get the actress again to ask more questions.

Kachi Onubogu ‘I never chatted with her about sex’.

We spoke with Mr Kachi Onubogu, Marketing Director, Promasidor, one of the people copied in the e-mail and whose chat with Gilda was sexually explicit. Mr Kachi admitted receiving the mail but denied being the one who chatted. His own words, ‘I got the e-mail but deleted if after just reading a bit of it and I immediately called Gilda and asked her what was going on and she said someone was trying to set her up and that everyone the mail was copied to are people that can help her. I don’t want to get involved in this. I have been a family friend to them for long and have helped them in every way I could when things were rough for them, I never have and never will try anything like was indicated in the email. This is malicious for someone to try and d o this. And I want to categorically state now that I have nothing with Gilda and I don’t want to be dragged into this mess. She should settle her mess and leave me out of this mess. She should settle her mess and leave me out of this please. I have a reputation to protect, I have a name and people know me. You say you are a journalist, go and do your investigations about me. I really want to make this clear for avoidance of doubt ok? I don’t have time for this nonsense, I don’t want to be involved in this nonsense!’

We asked him one more question, ‘Ruke Amata was also copied in the e-mail, have your tried to reach him? And his response was ‘I don’t have Ruke’s number, so how do I reach him? He hasn’t written me’

We thanked him and ended the conversation.

Excerpts from the mind bogging BB messages

GILDA AND SOUTH SOUTH GOVERNOR

Gilda, SSG (South South governor)

View messages:

Gilda: Good night my darling

SSG: Gdnite my baby

Gilda: I love you

SSG: thanks

Gilda: MMP

SSG: missing my princess

Gilda: aaaawwww I miss u soooo unbelieveably much. I want to experience Asaba again soo much my body is on heat mode!

SSG: very soon!

Gilda: coming Dec 2nd

SSG: (dancing icon)

Gilda: I love uuuuuu

What did I do right to to deserve you?

GILDA AND GUBER CANDIDATE (GC)

Gilda: U r not loving me again!:’(

GC=): still L u ooooo. Too much

Gilda: Good morning! What are you doing

Gilda: Having Breakfast

GC=): Enjoy Sh

Gilda: I will darling! I will be with soon u!

GC=):Can’t wait

Gilda: Aunty says she is traveling for 2weeks so its just u and me!:D

GC=): When is she traveling

Gilda: She said she has a conference from 3rd to 16 may.

GC=): Oh, that’s true

Gilda: Yeah!

GC=): Campaign galore

Gilda: Yeah!

GILDA TO SOUTHWEST GOVERNOR

(But he never responded)

On second thought maybe I shouldn’t have sent my pics . I feel soo silly co snows it like I am totally throwing myself at u and by virtue of who you are most definitely get a lot of that.

Hard to convince u I am not after your pocket or trouser but honestly believe I can learn a lot from you. I get my fair share of toasters but I always choose my friends.

Would also be lying if I say Being your friend won’t come with perks that u wld give willingly give but trust me I am doing very ok on my own. I have done and said enough. I will wait for a buzz from u at least to check. On me before u hear from me again. If u never do, well its been my pleasure introducing myself to u. God be with u. I still think u r pretty cool regardless see u soooooon!

GILDA AND GC

GC=): Ok. Am expectant am happy 4 you

Gilda:  I am loving you more than u are o!:(

Gilda: Should I stop?

GC=):  Are u sure

Gilda: U sound like u re actually laughing at me!

GC=): Can you?

Gilda: Can I what?

GC=): Answer. Can you stop loving me. Have you ever stopped?

Gilda: I can stop if I don’t feel like we are on same page!

GC=): We are on d same BB

Gilda: U have just given me the answer!

Gilda and South South Governor

SSG: Good morning my princess. Today is a very special day for US. If u were not born, we would not have met. I thank God you were born on this day. As we mark today, I pray for heavenly shower of blessing for good health, long life, prosperous living, protection for all evil plots etc. Enjoy ur day my baby and my darling!.

Gilda Amata (mpp): I am crying as I write u this msg. You are d best thing in my life ever. God bless and keep you for me In Jesus Name.

Gilda Amata (mpp): I am forever yours my precious!:*

SSG: Amen

Gilda Amata (mpp): You are beyond awesome! Beyond adorable! I don’t know what to call you! No word best describes you. I am crazy about you!

Gilda Amata (mpp): I have never loved anyone like I love. I swear it

SSG; () ********

Gilda Amata (mpp): How’s my precious doing?

SSG: I am fine

Gilda Amata (mpp): Thank God

Gilda Amata (mpp): LU

Gilda Amata (mpp): Wish I can soak in a warm bath with uin sweet smelling bubbles and showing u just how I much I love u!

Gilda Amata (mpp): Good morning MAO.

Gilda Amata (mpp): PING!!!

Gilda Amata (mpp): Busy?

SSG: At Alex Ibru’s burial

Gilda Amata (mpp): Ok my baby. God protect u in Jesus name. Amen

GILDA AND KACHI

Gilda: I told u we are friends, d wahala na loveside o

Kachi: Like massage him head when e dey eat

The foundation of love na friendship and remember say women sabi catch man if they mean am.

So una get d right foundation and don’t stop praying say God go ignite passion oooo

Gilda: let me brutally honest with u! He doesn’t do anything for me emotionally, I don’t feel like having sex with just like that. I have to watch a blue film to be in the mood with him. Sad

I know but it always been like that but I ignored it.

Kachi: E day go trust me e fit come back.

Gilda:  Not complaining she becos I choose this so hv no one to blame

Kachi: their actually is nothing wrong  to use a blue film or sex toy to excite u two what u should do is sometimes imagine the stuff in ur mind while u make out. For women that’s easier for guys its harder cause if you don’t like you won’t get that stuff up.

But if u work at it together u will get it back

Gilda: I am good for now biko. Let’s leave things d way they are for now. Can’t force some stuff.

Kachi: Honestly every couple faces times like this and we often think it’s a lost cause but sometimes it isn’t

Gilda:  There’s nothing to get back becos it was never there. From the beginning I was saddled with running the home and business and had no time to build romance into d mix and we really didn’t date for long so didn’t have time to know each other well.

Kachi: U know how strong willed you are when u want something?? U want that intimacy so go for it no give up. Never late to start, ur still under 40

Gilda: Do u know something? I really am cool like dis o trust me. I don’t feel bad about it. My cross to bear.

Kachi: Ur not gilda u just think the best way to manage it is to pretend its fine. Trust me u will be cooler when u get d kinda love romance u want?

Gilda:  He is actually a very self absorbed person who is never wrong and so for 8yrs I hv been d one trying to make things work always mindful of his feelings that I probably spoilt him

Kachi: Yep maybe he is maybe he isn’t doesn’t matter u have been together 8yrs u have the rest of ur lives to make it work and by God and u  two have so many year together that u can’t not have romance in it no matter how small

He probably thinks d same of u( she is always right)

Gilda:  He actually  agrees with me on that o truth is if u knew me before I married u will know that we are not really suited but I am grateful  we have a happy home  for d kids.

We don’t fight energy

Kachi: I know ur kinda person

Fight even though we may go days without  really talking

Gilda: My kind person yes not me ! my dearest best friend! Believe me when I tell u  that we are ok. Don’t worry about me I will be fine. After all there is more to life than romance. I just sent u d draft proposal. Pls review and send back as soon as possible. Thanks

Kachi: Ok o

Gilda: Pls did u get d stuff I sent yday?

Kachi: Not seen it which email did you send it to?

Gilda: Promasidor email!

Do u have another one I can send it to?

Kachi: konubogu@yahoo.com

GILDA AND KACHI

Messages

Gilda: oh dear! Don’t u just have a way of putting a smile on my face (hug icon) its not my fault oo maybe I never taste d shagging way go blow my mind

Kachi: yes oo good shagging will confuse u

Gilda: Till then! Ka chineke mezie okwu Iseee

Kachi: GildaaaaaaaAaaa u need good…

Gilda: I totally agree with u!

So where I go get am naaa

Kachi: E plenty d issue be say u get liver to…

Gilda: I day…since oo my mind never blow so I am almost convinced it would never happen for me (sad icon)

Kachi: U never….person like me. Trust me I satisfy

Gilda: So when we go ….na

Kachi: so you really wan….talk true

Gilda: yessss

Kachi: so I make u….well

Gilda: actually yes!

Kachi: If I… u, u no go fit return to oga cause it will be too good

Gilda: I will return to him but I want to ….u at every opportunity I get

Kachi: I know and me too I want to na where wahala go day

Gilda: I live very far away from u remember?

Gilda: if I …u I swear u go come back here

Gilda: lets …first and see

Kachi:…

Gilda:….Never ever. I want you in my ….full big and strong

Kachi: I know u do

Gilda: So what do we do?

Kachi:…it is…that…we’ll well

Gilda:?

Kachi: I say that’s what we should do. U need good ….

Gilda: I will … u when u come to London next month

Kachi:?. Hnmmm hiw many times abi u go just move into d hotel way I go dey spread…

Gilda: come first naaa

Kachi: I wan know weder to buy extra burantashi incase u wan finish the amu

Gilda: I go buy all and every

Kachi: Dis madam u really need to be ….well

Gilda: (big smile) looking forward to it

Kachi: I wan 3some

Gilda: our first time should be just us

Kachi: so you will do a 3some?? Seriously with me? Which hot babe should we ass in d pack

Gilda: but I no want share u

Kachi: but if u …. Me no be sharing I day share u??

Gilda: we both allowed one share dat na oga and madam shaken

Kachi: okay u don spoil finish

Gilda: I nor spoil! I just want to ….u

Kachi: Na di my….u want??

Gilda: Yessss

GILDA AND SOUTH-SOUTH GOVERNOR

SSG: How are u MPP? Hope U are adjusting to Nigeria?

Gilda: I miss u sooooo much! When ur coming home?

Gilda: I want to be with u

Gilda: Good night my  precious! :* (Hug)

SSG: Gdnite. Ur friend has become very desparate

Gilda: She said when u get back she will give me ur fone number to call u and ask u if we both can come see u that she just needs to meet u face to face

Gilda: I asked her what she plans to do if she meets u and she said whatever she has to

SSG: She says she wants to come to …. over d weekend. She wants a friend to talk to, it can be lonely blab bla!

SSG: I tire!

Gilda: Me sef don tire!

SSG: Calls virtually every minute & had not talked to her since Tue until today.

Gilda: She told me that….gave ….oil blokes so between u and …. that  the house money must come out by fire by force!

SSG: Lol!

SSG: ‘By fire by force’

Gilda: Her exact words

SSG: KK. Can handle that

SSG: Make she dey pray well or if na juju!

Gilda: She said since na my … wey in or give oga dey cause wahala I go give am make matter settle!

Gilda: I cried so hard after she left cos I am soo sick of her matter it makes me cringe

Gilda: She said she has no shame again!

SSG: Lol. Told her d kokoro story. She didn’t understand.

Gilda: What’s the kokoro story?

SSG: Now MPP…is there for me! No conditions!

Gilda: Fully yours!

SSG: Will tell you d kokoro story when I see U!

Gilda: Ok! Can’t wait!

SSG: (hug) (big smile)

Gilda: Sleep tight my precious adorable love of my life! I love u to bits

Gilda: But seriously I am scared of her now! She is really desparate!

SSG: No cause for alarm

Gilda: (kisses)

GILDA AND SOUTH-SOUTH GOVERNOR

Gilda: Gdm.Hope u r ok. How can someone who said she cannot imagine sleeping with becos u don’t appeal to her at all, that she will first kill herself, she will throw up if she kisses u and all sort of nasty stuff now need u so much that u r d only friend she has. I hv always known that u hv a very soft spot for her and I hv always come a very distant second to her. She has always been dark circling round our friendship and it saddens me. Maybe its really true that men like women who pose for them and treat them like shit. Like I said pretence has never been my thing good or bad. It just breaks my heart that u seem to be withdrawing from me to make room for someone who clearly is out to get something from u. I hv decided to never discuss her with u again. I will continue loving u like I hv always hv and ever will. If u hv space for me in your life I will be happy but if not u hv given me beautiful memories to last a life time but pls be careful I know u also hv a good heart. God bless u. I love u with all of me! Whether that is enough I don’t know. Hope to see u soon.

Gilda: God help me to make u see that u and my kids are d only bright spots in my life.

Gilda: Tell me how to win ur heart cos I hvnt got a clue obviously but let me tell u once again that I love u and I am not ashamed to say it.

SSG: O

SSG: U did not see my status?

Gilda: I am sorry! Noticed it after
SSG: I have more challenges than talking abt who loves and hates me!

Gilda: My knees are on the ground! I swear i saw it very late!

Gilda: I swear i wont bb again!

SSG: Who is …dat I shld have sleepless nite over? Maybe you U really don’t know me

Gilda: I have decided NEVER to talk about her again and trust me its over and done with!

Gilda: Hope u r okay, though

Gilda: God is your strength always. I am sincerely sorry. I love you!

Gilda: She just showed me your text messages. She wants to reactivate her bb cos u said you wished it was on so u wld open up to her…just came into town for a week. She is off to…on wed till Friday and that as soon as she comes bk its off to…both of us. I asked her if u okayed the…she said u hv no choice and that if u didn’t want her to come u wld have told her so thar she doesn’t no y u r hoarding the money when e plenty for your hand. Its all twisted and strange to me and it actually saddens me!

If u remembered d first time i met u alone at d den i struggled with my feelings bcos as much as i wanted you i felt u wld just like most guys sweet at the beginning and once a new interest comes u r history and beliv me, i have had my fair share of pains but i did give in and that day marked the beginning of d best days of my life in a long time. I am a hopeless romantic, what keeps me going is not money, of course it has put food and shelter and clothes on me and my kids but it is d pet names u gave me, the sweet icons u send to me. It is December, the us all through your surgery, u taking time to send me pics of u with tubes, i kissed those pics every min. It is d bday msg to me, ur new year msg, my gnight, u wishing me safe flights those r what makes us special. U told me at the beginning that I should be understanding cos of your job. Babes i no something i may hv seem to u as too demanding of ur time but i met u as a gov but u had my time even if it was a word form ubut uwld respond to me. When u stopped doing that i felt u didn’t feel d same as before. U get so upset when i say something u don’t like instead of scolding and correcting me. I beg and cry out to u but u say i don’t have self-confidence. I spent d most beautiful day with u in…and i tot we were back on track but u go back to ignoring my msg so much that on d day of our victory u didn’t acknowledge my greetings. I felt really bad and me not knowing how to pretend spoke my mind and u got so pissed u deleted me from your bb. I love u hopelessly! If i met u before I got married, I would gladly be your mistress for life. I am no…but i don’t think i am too bad. I am ever so sorry for every wrong thing i hv done nad said. I hv been a wreck since Friday! LUSM. Lets go back to the way we were please.:)

Good morning babes! Lagos safe and sound!

SSG: thank God

Gilda: I pray someday i get to spend a full day and night with u. Ur turn to give me a bath next time

GILDA AND SOUTH SOUTH GOVERNOR

Gilda: Goodnight my darling

SSG: Gd night my baby

Gilda: I love u

SSG: Thanks MMP

Gilda: MMP?

SSG: Missing My Princess

Gilda: Awwwww I miss u soooo unbelievably much. I want to experience…again soo much my body is on heat mode!

SSG: very soon

Gilda: coming Dec 2^nd

SSG: (dancing icon)

Gilda: I love uuuuuu. What did I do right to deserve u?

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