One of the most common questions we hear is, "How do we make our
relationship work?" The answers are complicated, varied, and, after a
while, can start to sound like muddled platitudes. But these commonplace
sayings get repeated because they work. With this in mind, we pulled
together 12 cliches that, in fact, reveal simple, tried-and-true advice
for having a healthy, happy relationship. Read on and let us know what
you think:
1. Mind your manners. "Please," "thank you" and "you're welcome," can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love him and don't take him for granted.
2. Variety is the spice of life. Studies have shown
that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Trying
something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or
as grand as a backpacking trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make
together will keep you feeling close.
3. The couple that plays together, stays together.
Find a sport or hobby that you both love (no, watching TV does not
count) and make that a priority in your relationship. Camping, biking,
building model trains... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing
together.
4. Fight right. In order to have productive
arguments, keep these rules in mind. Don't call your spouse names. When
things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other
person finish his/her sentences. Don't initiate a discussion when you're
angry.
5. I'll scratch your back if you scratch mine. No
one likes demands (unless you're in a BDSM role play), but everyone can
appreciate a compromise. If you want your lover to do something and
you're not sure he'll be agreeable, the quickest way to avoid a
confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: "Sure, I'll watch
Monday Night Football if you take me to see the next movie of my choice.
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